Change your Level through the 30 Day Challenge
Thursday , July 01, 2010

The 30-Day ChallengeThe Results? More clarity, more happiness, more energy, greater awareness, new (and effective) strategies, more momentum, more focus, less limiting beliefs, attainment of your next level!

Why? Because you definitely have more ‘POTENTIAL’ than what you are using right now. Guaranteed!!

 The 30-DAY CHALLENGE is about you stepping up to your next level of potential. You have it within you. You know that you have more to give, be or do. A lot more! So here is your chance to jump up to the next level of your potential. To CHANGE or INCREASE the results that you are currently getting in life. As you change, life changes around you. It must. Because you are no longer in the same space. You are operating on a new level of awareness, and with increased knowledge, skills and physical experience.

And the thing that really defines this program and the guaranteed results, is that you will be personally COACHED through the entire 30-DAY CHALLENGE. Have you ever heard of a million-dollar athlete that does not have a coach? Seriously. Have a think about it now. Does any athlete ever reach their full potential without a coach? A good coach provides them with perspective, experience, motivation, increased belief in themselves, and accountability. All the keys to unlocking their potential.

The 30-DAY CHALLENGE is about taking you to your next level. The basis of the Challenge is that there are certain things that Elite Athletes do that allow them to get such high results (and pay checks $$$$!). So I have modelled what they do – leading up to an event, immediately before the event, during the event and even after the event. And now I am going to Coach you to utilise these same (high performance) techniques, so that you can really play ‘THE GAME OF LIFE’ at your next level!!

Because the 30 DAY CHALLENGE is relatively new; for this one time only, I am going to waver my regular coaching fees (which start at $250) PLUS I am adding 6 weeks of BONUS training after the 30 DAY CHALLENGE to really make sure that you fully integrate your new habits (and successes) into your life. So you will actually get three FREE personal calls with me throughout the 30-DAY CHALLENGE!!! Lucky you ;-).

I am also going to limit the number of people doing the CHALLENGE to 20. So that I will really get to know your hidden secrets, limiting beliefs, your big goals, and your little foibles (as Robin Williams calls them in the movie ‘Good Will Hunting’). I am absolutely passionate about helping people realise their dreams and goals!!

Did I say the price yet? I read through ‘sales pages’ on some websites and it takes forever to find the price. So let me tell you and make it really clear! It is ONLY $97 USD. The 30-DAY CHALLENGE starts on 2 August, 2010; so get in quick to secure one of the 20 spots!!

The 30-DAY CHALLENGE will consist of a number of eBooks, an eWorkbook, a Journal, Goal Setting workshop, daily Podcasts (on different highly relevant topics), daily exercises, a survey to measure your starting and finishing level, a daily rituals checklist, 2 x calls with your Coach, and 6 weeks of BONUS videos & training on subjects such as: Relationships, using the Universal Law of Attraction, Weight Loss strategies, and more.

SO, here is the RIDICULOUS GUARANTEE. If at the end of the 30 DAY CHALLENGE you don't feel like you have stepped up to the next level, or got your monies worth, then I WILL PAY YOU $97 (plus your own $97 back!!). By the way, if I meet you in 5 years time and you tell me that you did not get your monies worth from the 30-DAY CHALLENGE I will still give you your money back. We might even discuss interest ;-). Places ARE limited and I want to start the coaching process EVEN BEFORE the 30-DAY CHALLENGE, so email me NOW.

The Next Level

Let’s get started today!!!

Whew. Sorry for the mouthful, but I am VERY VERY excited about this. My ultimate passion in life is to spread as much joy as I can around the world. And this will help me do it, one person at a time. ;-) 

And here are the 5 REASONS WHY YOU WILL STEP UP TO YOUR NEXT LEVEL...IT IS ALL STACKED IN YOUR FAVOUR!! click here

Posted by Carl Massy at 10 : 24 AM

 


A Key to Controlling Your Mind
Thursday , July 01, 2010

Key to Your MindOk. Do you want to know what one of the keys is to the door into your mind? A key that isn’t virtual, but exist for you to hear each and every day. Out Loud. A key that opens the door to daily your emotions, your behaviour and ultimately your results in life.  You may notice this key on others, but do you really notice your own key? Sorry to have you hanging in suspense, but this is REALLY important for you. Not me. You. If you want to know the key, then read on.

This key is so simple, most of the time we pay it lip service. This key is the LANGUAGE that you use. You might not realise how important it is, but it really is one of the keys to understanding how you think. And how you behave. And how you come across to others – which ultimately means how they respond to you. How you behave in the world (the actions that you take), gives you the results that you get in life. So putting it all together – changing your language can have a huge affect on your whole life and whether you are using your mind as effectively as possible.

So let’s look deeper into this ‘language’ and in particular the concept of ‘speaking in absolutes’, which I recently commented on my Facebook fan page, and a made a video of for my website. Since then I have dug deeper into the concept of ‘absolutes’ and I now have new insights as a result of observing this language pattern more closely. When I say absolutes, what I mean is words like “must be, must have, must do”, “always”, “everything”, “all”, “has to be”, and “can’t be”.

If you use language like, “The electricity MUST have went out in the WHOLE city” (when you lose power at your house), you are locking yourself into an absolute, which may have the following outcomes:

  • You may feel a need to defend your statement (otherwise you will look stupid if it looks like you might be wrong),
  • You may be ‘locked in’ to there being no other possibility,
  • You can feel overwhelm because of the scale of this situation you have created (and that all options and other possibilities are removed),
  • Plus you may sound a like a know-all which can distance people from you.

The same applies if you use a statement like: “It HAS TO BE the teenagers that caused the damage to the property”. Can you see how this traps you inside a restrictive statement – free of any other possibility? And can you see how this might create unnecessary stress for you?

Might I suggest catching yourself out when you use ‘absolute’ words and use an alternative like: “perhaps…”, “it’s my opinion…”, “it’s possible…”, “most”, “a lot”, “it seems”. This way you will allow the possibility that you may not have 100% of the facts; you may sound less like a know-all AND MOST IMPORTANTLY it can allow your mind to consider that there are other possibilities. That life isn’t just black and white. That there is possibility outside of the knowledge of science, or what you have witnessed in front of your eyes.

I have found that clients that talk in absolutes are quite stressed and have limited their creativity, because they lock their thinking into rigid statements, and they don’t allow for a possibility outside of what they know (which is relatively limited for all of us), to enter into their consciousness.

So even if you are 97.2% sure about something, don’t be too rigid in your language. Because rigid language (generally) = rigid mind.  Which can equate to stress, less fun, less magic in your life and can make you sound a little bit arrogant or authoritarian. Be cool. ;-)
 

Posted by Carl Massy at 10 : 18 AM

 


Want Less Stress?
Thursday , July 01, 2010

You Should Do you remember how I introduced an amazing author and therapist the other month called Katie Byron? Well there was something that struck a chord with me, and as a result I started paying even more attention to the language I used and the language others used. Again, by changing this one language pattern you can de-stress a huge part of your life. If you want to learn how MY business and YOUR business could knock 50% off your current stress level then do read on.

So the concept is ridiculously simple. And just to recap on Katie’s name for her book (‘Loving What Is’) and the message that it elicits: accept life for what it is, not what you think it ‘should’ be. In fact it is ‘should’ that again is going to get a public flogging in this blog!! 

Now back to ‘MY business, YOUR business’. I recently had the opportunity to observe someone create additional stress in their life because they spent quite a bit of time in other people’s business. It was generally well intentioned, but it was a business that they effectively had little, or no, control over. The key prefix they used was “You should…”. For example “You should wear your other shoes” or “You should eat this food”. This might seem harmless enough, but it can also mean the following:

  • You come across as bossy or nagging or the authority on all matters to do with life (which are not endearing traits ;-)),
  • You become disappointed, annoyed, or stressed if they ignore your statement or do the opposite or tell them you to bugger off,
  • You imply that you know what is best for someone else (instead of assuming they did their own thing because that is what they wanted to do, or not do),
  • Plus it takes focus (and energy) away from your own business (where you have 100% ability to influence the results).

So be conscious of when you use these simple little words, because it may be that you are adding a level of stress to your life that you could really do without. And you may be robbing yourself of putting energy into your own business and achieving the best results that you are capable of.

And for the record…I realised that I used the “you should” prefix too often in my own life. Now I am about making 'suggestions', and then letting other and YOU, choose how you want to use my advice. ;-)

 

Posted by Carl Massy at 10 : 07 AM

 


EXPRESSING YOUR GREATNESS
Monday , May 24, 2010
SuccessIf you are completely satisfied with what you have, what you do, and who you are, then do not read any further (and also send me an email to tell me how the heck you achieved it). Because I don't know about you, but I am still stumbling along sometimes like I have two left feet! ;-) 
I think that we all realise that none of us are using 100% of our capacity. Numerous studies and theories lead us to believe that we use less than 10% of the full capacity of our minds (some suggest as low as 5%). And how about this for a random thought…the amount of energy produced from splitting a single atom is about two hundred million electronvolt’s, and our body is made up of trillions of atoms. So in Carl Massy theory, we have enough ‘potential’ energy in us to turn the planet into a HUGE firecracker!! So know this. However much you think you have reached your full potential or capacity, know that you (and me) have barely scratched the surface. We can become so much more than what we have shown so far – regardless of how old we are. I remember reading in ‘Survival of the Fittest’ by Mike Stroud, of a woman in her late 50’s that took up long distance running (she was never a runner when she was younger). She went on, in her sixties, to compete in the Eco Challenge which is one of the most gruelling adventure races on the planet!  
So…we all have more in us.
From my experience I believe that these are some of the things that hold us back from being truly magnificent:
1.                  Not choosing big enough goals. The type of goals that really stretch us and keep us on the edge of growth. That are outside of our comfort zones. That operate within our emotional and mental capacity. Sort of like lifting small weights in the gym. They might maintain some muscles, but they will never cause the muscles to grow! In the gym, as in life, you need resistance to grow. And you need big goals to get you inspired!!
2.                  Being overcome by temporary setback (or even a number of setbacks). Setbacks are also part of the experience of life. They are the stuff that crafts us into better beings. That lets us know what works and what doesn’t – thus increasing our knowledge of the steps to success. They also have the potential to increase our emotional threshold. If we laugh at setbacks, and laugh at ourselves, and laugh at life, then dust ourselves off and get back up again – well then we learn to become truly great.  
3.                  Complacency (a.k.a. going backwards). If a plant in the garden decides to stop growing, what happens to the plants around it? They continue to grow, because that is their nature. And what happens to the plant that has decided not to grow? It is soon covered up and misses out on the life giving sunshine. Its roots don’t draw in water because there is none left at that same level. It is not that this plant is not growing – now it is actually dying. So getting too complacent with this gift of life will eventually mean that you are on the road to backwards
4.                  Fear of the unknown (or change). This stops so many people in their tracks. And again it is contrary to nature. We cannot, not grow. And with growth comes change – whether it is physically, emotionally, mentally or spiritually. So we have to change. And if we resist it, then we are going against the flow of the universe. We are hurting on the inside and life just gets harder and harder. Be ok with changing friends throughout your life, or partners, or occupations, or job titles, or countries, or income, or anything else which may come your way. There is not one thing that happens to you in life that creates a change, which you cannot look back on in 5 years as a positive life experience. So welcome change for what it is. A chance to allow you to grow into your greatness.
5.                  Not being fully present in your life in general and the things that you do on a daily basis. Not being committed 100% to what you are doing. Not mastering and excelling at what you are doing. Plus you do not feel life through all of your senses. You don’t truly hear the sound of the wind in the leaves, or see the colours dance across the sky at dawn and dusk, or taste the sweetness of that apple as you bite into it, or feel that life giving sensation as you draw that breath deep inside you, or smell the richness of a freshly cut lawn. Show up 100% in life and it suddenly takes on a whole new meaning (you will also be amazed at the strength that this gives you as well).  
6.                  Not knowing how great we can be. Because we decided to believe the wrong people and the wrong messages. This is a HUGE factor. We believe the messages that we hear around us. There are SO many examples in history of people becoming great BECAUSE they did not listen to the general consensus or even people closest to them. Nelson Mandela did not listen to his own confidents who said his way would not work. Ghandi did not stop because he was told that he was too insignificant to succeed against the British Empire. Mother Teresa did not stop helping people because she was told the task was too big. The Wright Brothers didn’t give up on flying because people said that metal could not stay in the air (which is handy for me otherwise the trip to and from Laos would be longer than the time I would spend there!).  
I have realised that the adventure of life is deciding to live our lives to our fullest. To set big goals; and then go after them. That the joy of life is the successes, the falls, the stumbles, the wins, the confusion, the innovation, the journey and the ultimate destination. This whole thing is life. Life isn’t just the good bits or the bad bits. It is the whole lot thrown together in a big mixer. You haven’t had a better life just because you haven’t experienced any really bad stuff. It is ALL part of the experience we call ‘life’. It is not about getting to the end of your days and saying – yeah, I had a pretty easy run. It is about getting to the end of life and knowing that you played full on and tried to push yourself emotionally, mentally, physically and spiritually to the highest level that you could. That you tapped into, and then unearthed, your incredible magnificent inner potential. That you cracked a few inner atoms and sent big arse firecrackers throughout the whole universe!!
So I challenge you to look in. Or to look at yourself in the mirror and ask yourself if you are playing too safe hand, or are playing to your full potential? And if you know that you have more in you; then do something about it. Push the envelope. Climb that mountain. Start that new business. Throw in that job that you hate. Commit to that partner that you have not been fully present with. Laugh at yourself a little more. Be more present in everything that you do. And live life more fully. Regardless of whether you believe that we have one shot at the title or are reincarnated for another crack at getting it right, the fact remains that this life is all that we have for now! So get living it (myself included!).
I look forward to seeing you on the big stage where you can stand up and truthfully say that you are living life to the best of your inner abilities!!
BRAVO!!! 
Posted by Carl Massy at 05 : 39 PM

 


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