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Balance Breakthrough Choice Confidence Leadership Success

Let’s Talk About How to Bullet Proof Your Life

Hiya, 

This weeks topic is inspired by a conversation with an Balinese employee working in a restaurant I recently visited. We were talking about doing stuff that we don’t to do. 

It got me to thinking about the bigger topic of how we can ‘bullet proof’ our life so that we are less dependent on external providers. This is all part of the process to self actualisation. To standing strong in our own power and have less possibility for someone to pull the rug out from under you. 

How bullet proof is your life? 
Who ‘controls’ aspects of your life, and how can you take back more control? 

Psychologists tell us it is very healthy for us mentally to have a feeling of autonomy (control) over our lives. So what ways can we take back the control and power in our lives. 

It is a worthy discussion and I hope it gives you food for thought and some ideas to work with. 

Have a super day.
Cheers
Carl 

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Breakthrough Decision Making Life Success

Live Presentation: Decision Making Mastery (in Bali)

Hiya, 

Last week I did my first ‘LIVE’ presentation in front of an audience to talk about decision-making and to promote my new book ‘Decision Making Mastery’. 

I say at the start of the presentation that I will give people tips to improve their decision-making skills by at least 20-100%. 

Let me know if you agree, after listening to the presentation. 

I also talk about the Audiobook that we have just finished editing, which I will sell for just $8.99 for the next 30 days. 

Go here to purchase a copy: 
https://www.carlmassy.com/books/decision-making-mastery/

Have a super day.
Carl 

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Behaviour Breakthrough Decision Making Possibility Success

A Common High Performers Blind Spot

Hiya,

This podcast is recorded by the ocean, so you will have a few ocean vibes in the background.

I was recently working with a client – someone who I would say performs at a high level in many areas of their life – especially ‘professionally’.

What I have noticed over time is there is a particular blind spot that applies more to people who are high performers, and can lead to a major setback if they are not aware of the generally unconscious bias they have.

You will have to listen to find out what the blind-spot is (no hints will be given).

Enjoy.
Carl

PS: If you have any questions for me or want to request I talk on a particular subject, or answer a question, just head over to my website and check out my contact page.

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Behaviour Decision Making Life Success

Decision Making Mastery – Part 1 – The Biggest Mistakes

Hiya,

Welcome to my 2-part series on Decision Making Mastery, based on my recently published book of the same name, which is available at Amazon (both paperback and Kindle).

I start off the conversation by highlighting the link between our decisions and our destiny, so the skill of decision making is REALLY important.

Then I speak about 3 specific mistakes or things to focus on, which will automatically take your decision making to a whole new level.

I hope you enjoy, and to help make the world better at decision-making, I have made the ‘decision’ to price the Kindle version of Decision Making Mastery at only $1 (as opposed to $8.99) until the end of March. Check it out!

Have a super fabulous day.
Take care
Carl

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Behaviour Belief Feelings Goal Setting Tips Possibility Success

What Might Be Holding You Back From Your Next Level of Success

holding backHiya,

Today’s podcast is looking at the idea of what might be holding you back from your next level of success (the 10X version)…and the ‘Authentic Success’ version. 🙂

Quite often what has got us to the level of success we have experienced in the past, might be the very thing holding us back from going to our next level.

Let me know what comes up for you.

Also if you would like to join me for 6-months of Coaching, with a cool group of international people, I have a couple of spots left, but we start soon, so chop-chop reaching out. 😉

The details are here.

Have a super day and please share this episode to pass on the insights and wisdom.

take care
Carl

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Balance Choice Success

Are you Using the Right Metric to Measure Your Success

metricHiya,

This podcast episode is inspired by a client I was having a coaching session with yesterday. She is an elite athlete, and Olympic Gold medalist and we were talking about a new project of hers, which she is super excited about.

And in the discussion we got to talking about ‘money’ and the measure of success in her new project.

I think people understand at an ‘intellectual’ level that money is not the only or even best measure of success, but it is harder to integrate that intellectual knowing.

So I talk about what are the other measures of success, and why me might be getting called to pay more attention to them now (in 2021) and less attention to the measure of money.

It aligns with the essence of my 3rd book – The Guidebook to Authentic Success‘.

I hope you enjoy the episode and please share and like if it resonated.

Have a great day too.
Take care
Carl

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Choice Success Thoughts

Exploring The Key Components of Critical Thinking

thinkingHiya,

2020. What a year.
Here is a question for you? Did you observe any really bad decision-making over 2020?
I am sure you have your hand up (as well).

Given that I spent 2020 writing my 5th book, specifically focused on Decision-Making Mastery, I got to understand at an even deeper level the role and asscoiation with Critical Thinking, which is a key component to making awesome decisions.

I found that there was one key component that was often missed, which is a component that adds a high level of quality to the outcomes from decision-making.

It is a component that is not only missed – most often – but is like a muscle we don’t work out enough. Without this muscle, we will never be at our best when it comes to making high impact quality decisions.

Enjoy the podcast and if you want to work with me in 2021, and 7 other awesome individuals, join us for Consolidation to Break Through for 6-months of group and individual coaching.

All the details are here.

Have a great day and take care.
Carl

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Books Choice Success Thoughts

Why Reading is a Superpower + Talking about The 4 Agreements

booksHiya,

I start off this podcast talking about why I think reading (in particular Non-Fiction) books is a superpower, when it comes to seeing the bigger picture.

It also allows for greater creative insights, and also being able to detect and deflect BS. It is much harder for someone to BS their was through a book that takes 8hrs to read.

I am also asked often about my favourite books. One of the best a simple but highly impactful book called The Four Agreements by Don Migual Ruiz (on Toltec wisdom).

If you committed to these 4 agreements, your like is likely yo take a dramatic shift for the good. That is, less stress and more joy.

I also talked about a book list I would post. Go to this link for the (long) list.

At the end I talk about an exclusive 6-month Coaching Program that I run each year for 8 lucky individuals. It is called ‘Consolidation to Break Through‘. Spots fill quickly and I will be advertising it more broadly soon, so get in touch now.

Have a super day and take care.
Carl

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Breakthrough Feelings Life Meditation Possibility Success

When One Door Closes Many Others Open

doorHiya,

Today’s inspiration for this podcast is as a result of a great meditation I was doing this morning (created by Sacred Acoustics).

I was guided in this meditation to journey through time, forwards or backwards, to a time that feels right for you to explore.

Without any set intention in mind, I ended up journeying back to a time when I was 18 years old, at the Australian Defence Force Academy, and I thought my whole world was crashing down around me.

I thought the door to my very awesome future was being closed before my very eyes.

Little did I know, that numerous other totally awesome doors were being opened up before the original door had barely closed.

I think you will relate to this podcast and I hope you enjoy it, but more so take something from it to make a positive impact in your own life.

Remember to join me for the LIFE MASTERCLASS Online Event happening 27-29 Nov 2020. There are 10x Live Q&A Coaching Sessions with me, access to the content for 12-months, and a money back guarantee.

And if you want a further $50 off the already awesome price, then use the Coupon Code – BEAUTY – at the checkout.

I look forward to seeing you there. Buy tickets and get more details here.

Have an awesome day.
Take care
Carl
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Confidence Leadership Life Success

My Take on Enacting True Leadership

leadershipHiya,

I hope you are well.
In today’s podcast I delve into the realms of leadership, and in particular what constitutes true leadership.

I actually was feeling some resistance to talking on this subject and taking a stance, but as true leadership dictates, feeling comfortable is not one of the predominant by-products of exercising true leadership.

I also talk about the stress response, the autonomic nervous system, the different levels of mind, trauma and even the topical subject of ‘cognitive dissonance’.

I come from the perspective of a former army major, a coach, a therapist who has worked with people with trauma, and someone fascinated with the evolutionary path.

If you want to ask me deeper questions or work with me, then reach out via my website.

And please join me for my online LIFE MASTERCLASS seminar happening 27-29 Nov 2020. And if you listen to the end of the podcast you will also hear how to get a MASSIVE 20% Discount on your ticket.

Have a super fabulous day and take care.
Carl
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