So…adaptability is pretty awesome; when used in the appropriate situation.
However, like most behaviours and traits they don’t work in a positive way 100% of the time. There are times where a good behaviour in one situation is a VERY BAD choice in another situation.
I have found that most people are unconscious of the downside of adaptability and when they are ineffectively using it in their lives.
That is, they are creating an unfavourable life experience.
In this podcast I also talk about a very impactful realisation from a recent coaching client, when it comes to ‘feeling a void’ when it comes to relationships. You will get some great insights from that observation.
If you like the podcast, I would LOVE for you to share it with someone else, so we can together make the world a more joyful place. 😉
Also I am opening up the registration for my (2021) 6-month, group coaching program called Consolidation to Break Through. 8 awesome individuals. A mix of group work and 1-on-1 coaching sessions. The coaching can be personal, business, or a combination. Check it out.
Have a super day.
I hope you are having a great day.
In today’s episode I was inspired by my morning bicycle ride through the rice fields and villages of Bali.
I was paying attention to the connection, interaction and feelings I was experiencing as I saw and interacted with different Indonesian people on my ride.
I was also reflecting on bank robbers and pearly whites.
Then there were thoughts about the relationship between love and fear and the physiological experiences of both – especially as it related to the brain and mind.
So as I journeyed through the rice fields in Bali, so too do I journey through love, fear, beauty and dumb-arse in this podcast.
I also mentioned a great teacher in the form of Dr Zack Bush, so check out some of his teaching too.
Let me know if you have any questions or comments by dropping me an email.
Also I have opened up registration to work with me for 6-months in 2021 with the CONSOLIDATION TO BREAK THROUGH program. There are a maximum of 8 people in the group, so if you are interested, check it out asap.
Have a super fabulous day.
I am recording this podcast at the end of April 2020, while we are still somewhere on the path of the corona virus experience. I am hopeful that we are well past the half way mark and in the home straight of getting back to life, work and reconnecting with people in a physical way.
I recorded this podcast on this topic, as I was recently with a colleague that had experienced a high level of fear around this experience, which I compared to my own experience. I have rarely felt any fear over this experience (my concerns are about what choices I get to make in the future when it comes to my health and well-being, based on what I have studied and written about over the last 20 years – a subject for later).
So in this podcast I talk about one antidote to fear that I think not only deals with fear, but builds up wisdom, and therefore an even better ability to make good choices in the future.
I also talk about things I have learned through my study and practice of hypnotherapy, so you can become more aware of what might be happening at a ‘subconscious’ level.
I hope you enjoy the podcast. If you have any comments or requests of my share them on my Facebook page, on my website or just sent me an email.
Have a super fabulous day, wherever you are on this beautiful planet of ours. All the very best and take care.
One of my favourite topics and the topic of my next book is the subject of decision making. I am a firm believer in the quality of your decisions impacting the quality of your life and your destiny.
It makes so much sense.
So in this Podcast I wanted to look at two different pathways, that have their place, in different situations.
In some cases the fear switch is highly effective, but in other situations if you don’t flick the consciousness switch, your ability to come up with the most creative, innovative and effective solutions will be sabotaged.
In the podcast I tell you how to activate the consciousness response, when dealing with more complex (and not immediate life threatening) situations or longer-term personal crisis.
I also mention in the podcast that I will be working with a small group over a 6-month period to help them navigate their way through the current global situation, so they come out more bullet proof and thriving. Send an email to firstname.lastname@example.org if you are interested in more details.
Have a super day and take care.
In this podcast I delve into the subject of Limiting Beliefs (also called stories, internal dialogue, repetitive thoughts, etc.) as it applies to my own relationship with increasing my ‘success’.
I realised recently that I had a belief about SUCCESS that was actually making me want to avoid the idea of more success, not because it is categorically bad, but because my STORY made it to.
I also wanted to let you know that I have been working on this stuff for 20 years, but I still get caught up in internal dialogues that don’t serve me. So never feel bad or ashamed for the crap that is playing around in your head – just acknowledge it and learn and grow from the experience.
Let me know if you have any questions and in the podcast I mentioned that my Process Your Limiting Beliefs online workshop includes a powerful NLP technique for repatterning and replacing limiting beliefs, with their empowered opposites.
Check that out here.
Have a super day and all the very best.
CHANGE YOUR BELIEFS.
CHANGE YOUR LIFE.
There is a hard way and a much easier way to create positive change in your life. The hard way is to ‘try’ and change everything external to you – people, institutions, places, etc. The easier way is to take your attention inwards and change your internal belief systems, so you can initiate new ways of feeling and behaving, and therefore achieve a new level of results. First you need to create a new level of mind. A Successful Mind.
In this book, you will clearly understand how your beliefs have been created, the impact they have on your results and emotional state of being, the possibilities when you change your subconscious beliefs, plus learn different strategies on how to change your most limiting beliefs. You will become intimately familiar with the beliefs that are not serving you. These disempowering beliefs (your internal software) needs to be upgraded; just like any computer that is still running Windows 95 software.
Carl Massy is the author of The Guidebook to Happiness, The Guidebook to Optimum Health, and The Guidebook to Authentic Success, plus a Coach and NLP Master Practitioner. A former major in the Australian Army and an Olympic Games anti-terrorism consultant, he is committed to helping people tap into their true potential in order to experience more health, vitality, happiness, and authentic success, in their lives.
Enjoy listening to the chapters from The Successful Mind.
All the best.
Chapter 1: Introduction
Chapter 2: Laying The Foundation
Chapter 3: The Formation of Our Beliefs
Chapter 4: The ‘Truth’ About Our Beliefs
Chapter 5: How Beliefs Determine Our Actions
Chapter 6: Getting to Know the ‘Gatekeeper’
Chapter 7: What are the Correct Beliefs?
Chapter 8: Now We Get to the Really Good News
Chapter 9: Putting It All Together
Chapter 10: The Specifics of How to Change Your Beliefs
Chapter 11: Conclusion
The Executive Summary
The Carl Massy Story
In this Happiness Class I will tell you about a shameful and humiliating event that happened to me 28 years ago, that has affected me in subtle ways ever since. Not only that – but what limiting belief I associated with the event that has been a thorn in my side every since.
I will also share with you how I dealt with that event (with a series of techniques) that made me feel as if the world bent itself around me. It is like a fear I have carried for years, and have had to work hard on, has just disappeared. I feel like a new me.
The event I share happened to me in the first year I was in the Army at Australian Defence Force Academy. It might come as a bit of a shock to all the guys I know from my service days to hear about the impact this event had on me, as I always maintained a brave face. Plus I believe I have been quite successful, regardless.
So if you want to hear Carl Massy as his most open and most vulnerable self, then you are going to want to hear this.
I will also be sharing with you the book I read, and the process I used to make such a life-changing shift.
The book was ‘Code to Joy’ by Dr Pratt, Dr Lambrou & Dr Mann.
Now as with every book (mine included), the real magic doesn’t come from reading a book, it comes from taking action on the information.
I hope you enjoy seeing me bare my soul.
Feel free to comment or share your thoughts here or on Facebook (http://facebook.com/CarlMassyPage
Have an awesome day
How many times have you hesitated or stepped back from the fullest expression of yourself because you bought into someone else’s story of what is (or isn’t) possible?
I know I have. And it ‘almost’ happened recently until I shook their fears off and decided to show up as myself.
In this Happiness Class I share with you what I learned recently when I opened myself to other peoples fears. How I came out the other side. The distinctions I made and the (amazing) results I got.
If you want to be your best, you might need to listen to this.
Have a great one!
So are you earning the amount of money that you ‘know’ you are capable of? Are you free from debt? Does conversation about money come easily and freely to you? Or when you admit it, you realise you have quite a crazy set of beliefs and blocks when it comes to money.
First thing – know you are not alone.
Most of us have a little or a lot of work to do on unpacking our beliefs around money – so we can tap into our full potential.
In this interview with Marguerita Vorobioff, she talks to us about what the biggest money blocks are from her experience. We get down and dirty about all things money and all things inside our heads on money.
This is Part 1. In Part 2 we will actually get her to show us how she helps people to overcome these blocks.
I hope you enjoy and if you have any questions head over to my Facebook Page or my website..
In this Happiness Class you will be handed a powerful tool to help you create the life you want.
To increase your happiness, reduce your stress and increase your self love. Which, by the way, we all need a little more of. Understanding the different angles of acceptance and how to apply it in a meaningful way is exactly what we look at in this weeks Class.
This is a the class not to be missed. I also share one of the best practical tools for dealing with runaway emotions – which as you know can make your life seem like a stroll through a field of slush.
Enjoy your Class and if you have any questions, just got to my website to leave them, or jump on my Facebook Page. I love the chance to serve you.
Have a good one!
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