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Behaviour Belief Confidence Habit Possibility Relationship Thoughts

The Power (and Necessity) of Courage to Self Actualise (and thrive in the 2020’s)

Hiya, 

Today I talk about one of my favourite topics…COURAGE. 
The ultimate fuel source for thriving in a challenging world, plus the necessary fuel source if you want to self actualise or experience a higher level of mind or consciousness. 

This has been taught throughout the ages. The value and necessity of courage. 

I mention a previous episode about Courage Vs Confidence, which I encourage you to check out: 
https://www.carlmassy.com/podcast/confidence-how-to-have-more/

Also if you have not watched (or listened to) the presentation I did recently on Decision Making mastery, at The Practice yoga centre in Bali, check that out on YouTube with this link.

Enjoy the podcast and let me know if you have any questions or need any help by visiting my website and connecting with me via my contact page.

Take care
Carl 

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Balance Breakthrough Feelings Health Life Possibility

Getting Sick Can Be a Growth Opportunity

Hiya, 

In this podcast I play with a bit of a controversial topic – the idea that getting sick (like EVERYTHING in life) can be a growth opportunity. 

I talk about my own experiences with pneumonia and pleurisy and other ailments over my 51 years and how each of them – while a bit crappy to experience at the time – have lead to personal growth, and in some cases MAJOR personal growth.

I encourage you to tune in and see what it brings up for you. 

If you have not picked up a copy of Decision Making Mastery, make sure you check out the link below. I have also completed the Audiobook version and am selling it for the same price as the paperback. Enjoy!

Have a super day.
Take care
Carl

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Breakthrough Decision Making Life Success

Live Presentation: Decision Making Mastery (in Bali)

Hiya, 

Last week I did my first ‘LIVE’ presentation in front of an audience to talk about decision-making and to promote my new book ‘Decision Making Mastery’. 

I say at the start of the presentation that I will give people tips to improve their decision-making skills by at least 20-100%. 

Let me know if you agree, after listening to the presentation. 

I also talk about the Audiobook that we have just finished editing, which I will sell for just $8.99 for the next 30 days. 

Go here to purchase a copy: 
https://www.carlmassy.com/books/decision-making-mastery/

Have a super day.
Carl 

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Acceptance Decision Making Life Possibility

Looking at Uncertainty in a Positive (and Fun) Light

Hiya,

I don’t think you are going to dispute the fact with me that we are living in uncertain times. Now there are a lot of things we can’t control or change.

However…

We do get to choose how we see, give meaning to, and choose to interact with this thing called ‘uncertainty’.

And I will also share with you why uncertainty is actually a pretty good thing.

Enjoy this episode and if you need a hand at any stage, don’t hesitate to reach out via my website.

Plus make sure you grab a copy of my newest practical book ‘Decision Making Mastery’.

Have a super day and take care.
Carl

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Behaviour Breakthrough Decision Making Possibility Success

A Common High Performers Blind Spot

Hiya,

This podcast is recorded by the ocean, so you will have a few ocean vibes in the background.

I was recently working with a client – someone who I would say performs at a high level in many areas of their life – especially ‘professionally’.

What I have noticed over time is there is a particular blind spot that applies more to people who are high performers, and can lead to a major setback if they are not aware of the generally unconscious bias they have.

You will have to listen to find out what the blind-spot is (no hints will be given).

Enjoy.
Carl

PS: If you have any questions for me or want to request I talk on a particular subject, or answer a question, just head over to my website and check out my contact page.

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Behaviour Breakthrough Choice Decision Making Life Love

The Importance of Radical Self-Care – Part 2

Hiya,

If you have not listened to Part 1 on Radical Self Care I encourage you to do so. Now, more than ever, we need to take care of our physical, mental, emotional, psychological and spiritual parts of ourselves.

In this Podcast I get uber practical and share a practice that I have which I have turned up the dial on (more regular and more intentional) to take care of myself, and to allow me to be in the right state for the professional work I do coaching. I need to have my sh#t together to be able to work effectively with others. 😉

I recorded this at the East Coast of Bali in a place called Candi Dasa (pronounced ‘chandi’) spitting distance from the ocean. So there is a bit of ocean background nice as accompaniment.

Let me know if you have any questions or need a hand along the way. Just go to my website and contact me via there (as I am pretty crap at the social media thing.

Have a super day.
Cheers
Carl

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Behaviour Decision Making Life Possibility

People, Social Comparison, and Aligned Purpose

Hiya,

This weeks podcast was inspired by a number of Coaching Sessions with my clients this last week.

We explored the idea of giving less of a sh#t about what other people wanted for you, thought you ‘should’ do and expected of you.

It was about getting back to SELF. You unique gifts. Your unique journey. Your unique path and purpose.

See what this brings up for you.
And then step into your GREATNESS!

If you have any questions, don’t hesitate to reach out via my website.
https://www.carlmassy.com/

Have a super day.
Carl

PS: If you have not listened to my podcast on RADICAL Self Care, do yourself a big favour and check it out.

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Behaviour Breakthrough Decision Making

Mastering the Art of Specificity in Order to Problem Solve

Hiya,

When I am coaching clients one of the principle skills I use is the art of artful questioning. And one of the things I most interested in is getting to the heart of an issue.

I keep asking questions until I get to the ‘actual’ specific thing that is the issue, problem, challenge or obstacle.

Once we get SPECIFIC, then we can do something ‘specifically’ about addressing it, in order to resolve, circumvent, acknowledge, accept, process or consciously avoid it.

The secret is to go from the general to the specific. t really is a game changer and one of the best tools in my coaching bag of tricks.

Just a reminder, if you have not picked up a copy of my latest book – Decision Making Mastery – check it out at Amazon.

And if you want to connect with me, it is easiest to do so via my website.

Have a super fabulous day.
Take care
Carl

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Balance Choice Decision Making Feelings Happiness Tips

It is Time (in 2021) for Radical Self Care

Hiya,

So…one size does not fit all. Never did. Never will. And that applies equally to what worked for you 18 months ago. It may very well not work for you now.

It is very clear to all of us (regardless of our specific world view beliefs) that 2020 and 2021 are radically different than life in 2019.

What this means – specifically when it comes to ‘self care’ – is what might have worked for you very well 18-months ago may not be right, or enough, or the right combination now; in order for you to maintain a high level of well-being (mentally, emotionally, psychologically, physically and even spiritually).

In this podcast I share with you lots of ideas of how you could incorporate into your own life a new level of ‘radical’ self care.

This is a very common theme I am teaching my coaching clients, and also I am closely reviewing and revising in my own life.

If you need a hand in the self-care department do not hesitate to reach out to me via my website.

Enjoy the podcast and enjoy increasing your level of self care.

All the very best.
Carl

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Belief Breakthrough Decision Making Life

The Benefits of Being Faced with a WTF Do I Believe Situation

Hiya,

In this weeks Podcast I explored the idea of what happens when a lot of our beliefs get upended, and we experience a time of great uncertainty and confusion.

I actually think there are some great benefits to come out of the experience we have been through, and are still going through, with the corona virus. It has caused us to sit back and ask some powerful and life-changing questions.

Like “WTF do I believe when it comes to X, Y, Z?”

OR “Was Charles Darwin actually right when he came up with the statement ‘Survival of the Fittest’?”

Such an opportunity exists from exploring that question. Which is where I go in this weeks podcast. I hope you enjoy it and feel free to ask any questions.

Have a great listen and a fun day.
Cheers
Carl

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