My question is what are the 5 tops things to do to ensure you get what you want?

This is just my opinion for the top five, but it would have to include:

1. Express gratitude for all that you have already

2. Have a very clear vision for what you want - in as much detail as possible

3. Maintain that vision or see that vision regularly

4. Take actions to bring that thing into the physical world

5. Have faith that your vision will be realised